Careers, careers, careers. You’re struggling to fit everything into your life and may wonder why your career has left you feeling unfulfilled. OR you may love your current career, but still yearn for something more.
Could it be possible that you’re looking for your calling? And what’s the difference between a career and a calling anyway?
A career is defined as ” an occupation undertaken for a significant period of a person’s life and with opportunities for progress.”
Career opportunities may come in the form of new projects, assignments, promotions or leadership positions. Career progress is usually measured by what’s most important to you in your career.
For example, if you love to travel, then progress may mean that you’re given the chance to travel in your role. If you want to build a team, progress for you may be moving from a solo contributing role to a position where you have a chance to lead a team in the pursuit of a common goal.
You’re ambitious and have spent a lot of time building your career and will continue to do so for many, many years.
But, did you know that something can also be “careered,” which means “to move swiftly and in an uncontrolled way in a specified direction.”
This gives me pause not only because it’s a tongue twister, but because who wants to move in an uncontrolled way (unless you’re listening to Justin Timberlake’s “Can’t Stop the Feeling”)? But, things happen in our careers at times that cause us to continue forward on a path that may or may not be the best route long-term.
Or we may not feel completely in control of our careers because we somehow landed there by “moving swiftly” in a specific direction that we chose or someone else chose for us.
We may be going in a certain direction in our career based on the expectations of others or paths that we were led to at an earlier point in our lives. Even worse, we may not realize that we were going in the wrong direction at all or that there was a better path until right before we’re planning to retire or until something happens in our lives that make us rethink our careers.
So, what happens when you still feel like something is missing even when you have opportunities to grow in your career through travel, greater leadership positions or any other measure of progress that you may have?
This is usually when you start seeking a deeper, more purposeful life that evolves around your calling. So, what’s a calling?
The first definition is “the loud cries or shouts of an animal or person.”
Your calling is usually around a topic or passion that you talk about any chance you get and you’re always shouting it from the rooftops. It’s not a braggadocious shout (I promise…this is a real word). It’s a shout that focuses on the needs of those who you’re called to serve because service is the true path to your calling.
Your calling is something that you live and breathe. When people are around you, they may sense your calling without you ever telling them what you do.
The second definition of a calling is “the strong urge toward a particular way of life or career.” You can’t miss your calling once you start tuning in to the quiet whispers or loud knocks because it pulls you in its direction. You’ll know once you’ve found it because you’d do it even if you’re not paid for it.
People Who Are In Their Calling
So, here are a few examples of ambitious women living in their calling.
Oprah Winfrey began her career in radio and television broadcasting, serving as a news anchor. It’s well known that she laughed at funny stories and cried at sad stories, which wasn’t the norm at the time. It was an honor to personally attend and hear her talk about her career and life during “The Oprah’s Life You Want” weekend tour back in 2014.
She worked in a series of anchor jobs that helped her build experience in her career before moving to Baltimore, Maryland where she hosted “People Are Talking,” a TV chat show.
Oprah has shared that she knew it was the place for her the first time she went in front of a live audience on the set.
The feeling that she experienced being in front of a live audience and the impact that she desired to have on others led to her calling. Oprah was later recruited to Chicago to host “A.M. Chicago” and the rest, as they say, is history.
She eventually became the host of The Oprah Winfrey Show, a #1 Nationally Syndicated Talk show that impacted millions of people around the globe through inspirational stories of courage, resilience and intentional living.
Arianna Huffington was also a successful businesswoman that had built up an amazing media business with “The Huffington Post.” She had raised a family while also building a global brand.
I heard Arianna Huffington speak at a conference in San Francisco and knew that she was living in her calling. She had an amazing career and a range of accomplishments until the day she collapsed from sheer exhaustion, hitting her head on a desk and awaking with physical damage.
She had done too much, too fast, for too long and her body had exceeded its limits.
This led to her creation of Thrive Global, a company focused on ending the stress and burnout epidemic through sustainable practices to support performance, wellbeing and more. Her company impacts people and organizations around the world.
Rest and employee wellbeing can be a competitive advantage. Arianna has been on a mission to help people and organizations reframe how they work and to encourage rest and wellbeing to truly help everyone in the organization THRIVE!
How to determine if you have a career or a calling:
1) Would you perform in your current role or position for free?
If the answer is a big YES, then you’re in your calling. If NO, you’re in a career (and if the answer is worse, then you might just have a job). You can still have a great career even if you feel that it’s not something you’d do for free. However, your calling is absolutely something you’d do even if you never receive a penny (or two) for it.
2) Do you feel like you’re serving the people you’re meant to serve?
If you’re in a position that has minimal impact to others and it’s more focused on moving up the ladder, you’re in a career. If you’re in a position that serves others who you feel you were born to serve based on your past experiences or values, then you’re in your calling.
3) Are you energized or drained from your current work?
It’s normal to feel stressed at times or drained during busier periods or seasons in our careers and lives. But, if you’re constantly drained from your career, you’re not in your calling. Your calling should energize you most of the time.
Careers and Callings Can Be Friends
Careers and callings don’t have to be enemies. You can actually have both. Your career can be exciting and meaningful right now and you may not have a desire to do anything else. But, if you feel like your career is great, yet you still feel like something is missing, listen for the clues.
Your friends, family and colleagues can help you uncover your calling based on the areas where they seek your advice. For example, if you have someone seeking advice in the area of relationships and you’re a marriage or family therapist, then you may already be in your career and calling.
On the other hand, if you have someone seeking your help with parenting advice, but you’re a financial planner, you may want to explore that path if you enjoy giving parenting advice and are seeking more fulfillment in your career. You may be able to create a specialized area of financial planning that focuses on parents, which may lead to greater satisfaction in your career and a deeper calling.
I value careers and callings. Both play a role in our lives. Careers can help lead to your ultimate calling, but your calling is always greater. Why? Because you would do the work 100% free for the rest of your life and for the people that you’re serving. It’s that meaningful to you and your organization, community or the world.
The beauty is…you’ll never truly have to work for free because your impact, value to others and belief in the role that you’re performing or the one that you’ve created means that you’ll always be in demand to share your gift with others. People will want to support your calling to help you sustain the mission and to continue serving others in a way that only you can.